4 quick fixes to make new year’s resolutions stick
environment, exercise, inspiration, wealthy wednesdays
4th Jan 2012
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So it’s the new year, and you made a whole bunch of promises to yourself that this would be YOUR year to make stuff happen. Whether you want to
- lose weight
- quit smoking
- start working out
- get a new job
- or get into a loving relationship
how can you make these promises stick? Simple – start working on these 4 areas of your life:
Environment
If you have habits you want to break, you’ll need to switch up your environment. You don’t want to keep walking past that cupcake shop if you know you they’re your kryptonite. So change the way that you go to work. A new route will give you a new perspective, keep you away from what you know is dangerous, and also help you discover new places you didn’t know about.
Social
Tony Robbins has said that the quality of your life can be determined by looking at who is in your circle of influence. Who are the five people that you spend the most time with? How are their thoughts, attitudes, and behaviors influencing what you think, say and do? Hang out with positive, uplifting go-getters, and I bet you’ll have more fun and get more done than if you’re hanging around whining, excuse-making procrastinators.
Emotional
What are you feeling, and even more importantly, what are you saying to yourself? Listen to that inner dialogue – yes, that running commentary that is always, always, always going. Maybe right now it’s saying, “Oh, yes, I agree with that last point, but not so much this one.” These thoughts can stop you dead in your tracks when you’re trying to make positive change.
Have you ever said something like, “I’m going to lose 10 pounds.” And heard that voice speak right up and say, “Oh, no you’re not. You’re too lazy. And you always fail anyway. Who do you think you are?”
This has got to stop if you want to make progress. First, recognize that these thoughts are just thoughts – and not even necessarily yours. They could be old thoughts and beliefs that you got from a teachers, relative, friend, or somewhere else. Then, when these thoughts arise, you can simply dismiss them with a, “Thank you for sharing.” Then let it go.
Physical
Change your physical state on a regular basis to keep yourself focused on making positive change. What do I mean by this?
Feeling sad? Try looking up toward the ceiling and smiling. Stretch your arms out. Do you still feel sad?
Feeling tired? Shake off your fatigue. Take a brisk, 2-minute walk, or turn on a favorite song and dance for a few minutes.
Bored? Get up, stretch your arms, take a few deep breaths. You’ll notice that bored feeling is suddenly gone.
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Getting in shape in winter
exercise
2nd Jan 2012
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I joined a gym 5 blocks from my house about a week ago. I had been a member about 4 years ago when I decided that I would work out in my home and outside more than I wanted to go to the gym.
That worked great for a while. It was when I was just starting P90X, and I had a strong motivator to get me out of bed before sunrise each workout morning – I was getting married. There’s nothing like photos that will last a lifetime to motivate you to get in shape.
I discovered that working out in the summer is great, but once the temperatures dip below 40 degrees, I have no interest in being outside, let alone trying to work up a sweat for 30 minutes or so. For the past two years, I have hibernated in the winter, and woken up in spring feeling groggy, stiff and tired.
Well, no more. Since I joined, I’ve started a weight-training program called Turbulence Training. Recommended to me by friends, it is supposed to help you burn off the excess in half the workout time you normally think you need. I’ve done two workouts so far, and they look easy until you start doing them. My hamstrings will tell you that something is working.
On my off days, I’m experimenting with the few classes that the gym offers. My first adventure was at Zumba class. I was worried about looking foolish and tripping over my own feet. But lo and behold, I had fun, and I didn’t fall on my face. I didn’t even feel like I was exercising, and I worked up a good sweat by the end of it.
Sometimes, just mixing up your routine is enough to get you started on a new path. I feel renewed energy in my life from mixing up my workouts and doing them in a “new” place.
My next step is to set a goal for myself. This will help me stay motivated and focused. In the past, I’ve trained for events as my goal – such as my wedding or an actual physical event. This year, I don’t have a milestone to reach, so I may have to invent one.
Past goals that I have accomplished include – finishing a mini triathlon in 1 hour and 30 minutes, completing a 350-mile bike ride, healing myself from chronic eczema, losing 10 pounds, and healing my underactive thyroid.
What do you want to accomplish this new year? Are you ready to make it happen?
I want to make it easy for you to get started. So join me on a special no-cost teleclass on Thursday, January 5 that will reveal:
- What’s holding you back from getting healthy once and for all
- What foods might be doing more harm than good
- How you can get started easily this January
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Stay fit without militant exercise
exercise
19th Oct 2011
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I used to be an all-or-nothing exerciser.
It was either that I was working out all the time or not at all. It started with running, aerobics, weight training. Later my workouts evolved into hard-core endurance training for longer runs, century (100 mile) bike rides, and triathlon training.
And then, if I got injured or sick, I’d stop – and go for days without moving.
I didn’t think that you could be healthy without working out all the time and really hard.
So, it was to my delight that I discovered that I’m actually in better shape now that I don’t work out so hard, but still do more moderate workouts. Or, if I want to get super-fit, that the shorter, intense workouts actually work better than long, boring cardio.
In between the harder workouts, here’s something I do that works well and makes me feel fantastic:
Your turn: what’s your workout style? Do you workout hard or avoid it? Leave me a message in the comments section below.

Jack LaLanne – words of wisdom from a fitness pioneer
exercise, food, inspiration, magnificent mondays
24th Jan 2011
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How do you build up your bank account? By putting something in it everyday.Your health account is no different. What I do today, I am wearing tomorrow. If I put inferior foods in my body today, I’m going to be inferior tomorrow, it’s that simple.
- Jack LaLanne
Jack LaLanne was a pioneer in modern fitness and nutrition. He was one of the first to encourage athletes to work out with weights and to get women exercising. He had one of the first and also the longest-running exercise program on TV. He had his own fitness chain and sold juicers.
And he walked his talk. He worked out two hours per day, 7 days per week, through his entire life. He never ate sweets – only fresh fruits, vegetables, and lean protein. And he celebrated his 70th birthday by swimming 1 1/2 miles towing 70 rowboats with 70 people in them.
He died at 96 of respiratory failure due to pneumonia. His legacy lives on in videos like this:

How to Finally Get Healthy
diet, exercise, favorites, inspiration
14th Jan 2011
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Warning – what I’m about to reveal may shock you.
I bet you think that I’ve always eaten perfectly balanced meals, complete with leafy greens, whole grains and clean protein. The truth is, I haven’t always been so healthy.
Before I got healthy, my eating habits looked something like this:
- Breakfast – coffee and giant sugary donut
- Mid morning – coffee
- Lunch – Fried chicken sandwich on white bun, curly fries, diet soda
- Mid afternoon snack – coffee, apple or candy bar (whatever’s more convenient – what do you think I chose?)
- Dinner – pasta with red sauce and cheese, diet soda
I liked eating what I ate, and I didn’t care how I felt. And it worked for me for a while – until it didn’t.
So what happened? And why did I decide to change?
As you can imagine, eating this way and not exercising made me put on excess weight. Eventually, I was diagnosed with acid reflux and under-active thyroid and was put on medication. To top it all off, I felt moody and depressed a lot of the time.
What I didn’t realize at the time was that I had the power to make myself healthy by eating better. I didn’t have to be sick and on medications if my body was in balance and working properly. Eating the right foods and balancing my moods and hormones with exercise would help tremendously.
What made the difference was realizing this:
Good health is a choice
I could make better decisions. My first choice was vanity – I wanted to like the way I looked. Fortunately, that choice led to many healthier habits. I knew that eating better would help me lose weight and enjoy my body more. The pleasant side effects of eating healthier foods were more energy, and no more acid reflux. Eating the right foods also kept my systems balanced and functioning properly – and my thyroid started normalizing and functioning better.
Exercising would also help. What I had forgotten was that, once I got past the initial pain of getting into a workout routine, moving my body felt good – and made me happier, too. Exercising helped relax me and balance my hormones, too.
How I did it
First thing I did was decided to get healthy. This is crucial when you want to make a big change. You need to be committed to your goal. The easiest way to do this is to understand the reason why you want it. What will it give you to be healthy? And ask yourself, what does that mean to me? For me, my why was that I wanted to look good, but what that meant to me was that I loved and respected myself. Freedom from meds for me meant that I was empowered and strong.
Second, model a plan that works. I experimented with many different diets and exercise plans. Some worked and some didn’t. By trying different plans, I figured out what worked for me and my unique body. Some things I was able to learn from books, and some I learned from practitioners. Which leads me to…
Third, get support. It’s so much easier to get healthy when you have a guide who can show you the way. I’ve worked with acupuncturists, ayurvedic practitioners, yoga teachers, and other healers. Each person has taught me something new about my own body and healing system. And I’ve been able to refine what works well by healing my self and working with others to heal.
If you’re ready to begin your own healing journey, there’s no better time than right now. I have two programs starting in 2 weeks – The Jumpstart and the Reset. If you feel that private coaching may be better for you, contact me to set up a Get Healthy Now strategy session.

Back to the track
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21st Sep 2010
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It was the muscle-headed drill-sergeant-like trainer who gave me my wake up call. Literally.
He looked me up and down, his arms crossed just below his bulging pecs.
“You,” he said, accusingly, “Could stand to firm up a bit. I’d say, about 10 pounds.” He poked at my arm. “You’re kinda doughy.”
It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve worked out regularly. I usually feel much better when I move more – either running outside, doing yoga, or my favorite: P90X.
But too many late nights working threw me off my workout schedule. Because I wasn’t hitting the hay until after 11 pm each night, there was no way I would be able to get up at 6 am, do my workout thing, and then stay awake and alert for the whole day. So exercise went out the window.
On top of all that was the healthy eating. I know what you’re thinking – how could I give up my healthy regimen? Well, it wasn’t totally gone. But I wasn’t eating at home as much as I normally do, and I wasn’t cooking either. I’m lucky that my husband likes to cook and willingly pitches in when I’m too busy. But even he gets tired of slaving over the hot stove for too many nights in a row.
Obviously, it’s impossible to be totally, perfectly balanced all of the time. It just doesn’t happen. But what was so funny was that this cartoon character of a trainer showed up in my dream this morning to “whip me back into shape.”
So, this morning I got up and went running. I took a different route, one that was more leafy and green. And I felt amazing afterward. My body was refreshed, my mind was clear, and I didn’t feel doughy in the slightest.
This is the first time that one of my dreams motivated me.
What motivates you to get active? Do you have an inner drill sergeant?

Losing It with Jillian
exercise, inspiration, mindset
9th Jun 2010
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I watched Losing It with Jillian last night. She’s one tough trainer, but some people need that kind of coaching. What I like about her style is how she’s able to quickly break through people’s barriers by pushing the right buttons to get them to talk. Because half of what keeps people who are really stuck and unable to get motivated when they’re overweight has to do with burying feelings.
It seems like it’s so much easier to eat over your emotions instead of dealing with them. Until it’s not. And all of the people featured on the show have already hit their own personal “bottom” in order to reach out and call for help. And yet, even when they have Jillian up in their faces, they are overcome with fear and want to run away.
I’m not a huge fan of reality-style shows, but I’m glad that more of these nutrition and weight loss shows are on. I find it really inspiring to see people who are finally proving to themselves that they can overcome their perceived limits, breaking down false barriers that were holding them back from really living.

Exercise outside for a healthy body and happy mind
exercise, fun, happiness, inspiration
13th May 2010
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Exercising outside can make you more than just fit – it can also give you a positive mental boost.
MSNBC reports that according to a study done by researchers at the University of Essex, even as little as five minutes of “green” activity such as walking, gardening, cycling or farming can make you feel better and boost your self esteem.
When you live in a city like I do, and you are always looking out on the bright white and gray of tall buildings and scrolling sidewalks, you start to crave green. Fortunately, there are plenty of parks around New York City, and a short train or bus ride can get you to greener environments.
If you live in New York City, there are plenty of workouts taking place outside in the warmer months. Some of my favorites include:
Kiki’s Traditional Tribal Fitness workout – takes place in Williamsburg, Brooklyn and Jackson Heights, Queens. A great trainer who’s very dedicated to his workout “family.”
Tai Chi and Yoga in Bryant Park – great free classes that run thoughout the summer months – starts in May. If you’ve never tried Tai Chi, I recommend it – doesn’t feel like a workout but talk about calm and balance after doing it.
If you know of more that you could recommend to me, please pass them on!

Get moving
exercise, fun, inspiration, self care
10th Dec 2009
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Feeling a little tired and sluggish but don’t want to do your usual workout? Doing any sort of movement can help. Even if you’re just taking a walk, cleaning the house or stretching, it’s better than if you just sit there feeling gross.
Or do something totally out of your ordinary routine. Last night I went to a birthday party downtown where they had a DJ spinning awesome dance music – and I rocked out. So much more fun than doing my usual running and strength training routine. And I know I got a good workout because I broke a sweat, and felt totally energized yet tired afterwards.
Make your movement fun, and you’re much more likely to do it. What kind of movement makes you feel awesome?
From Zen Habits, here are 48 ideas on fun exercises
Each weekday in December I’ll be posting a new tip of the day to help you live a delicious life. If you like my tips, let me know in the comments!

A quick way to relieve stress
exercise, fit fridays, self care
25th Sep 2009
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Are you feeling a little wound up? Could you use a quick break? Stop what you’re doing for five minutes and stand up. Try doing a few stretches to relieve your stress:
The big stretch
- Sweep your arms upward while taking a deep breath through your nose
- Hold your arms above your head and gaze at your fingertips – hold your breath
- Exhale deeply and let your arms sweep down toward your sides
- Do this a few times then move on to the next stretch
Chest expansion and forward bend
- Clasp your hands together behind your back so that you are pulling your shoulderblades towards each other and expanding your chest
- You can either hold this position or do a forward bend, letting your head drop down towards the ground and your arms extend overhead
- Hold for a few breaths and release
Twist
- Twist your upper from side to side, letting your arms swing freely
- Keep your legs planted while you twist
- Make sure you’re breathing
Why exercise and stretching can help you relieve stress
When you exercise or stretch, you increase blood flow to all areas of your body. Breathing more heavily will increase the amount of oxygen in your blood. And when you work out hard, your body releases endorphins, which give you a natural high. All of these things make you feel better and less stressed because your muscles are getting more blood, more oxygen, and moving the way they were meant to move.
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